Everyone has their share of fears and challenges. Whether it be heights, spiders, public speaking, rollercoasters, test. Something always gets under your skin, it may be major or minor... simple dislikes or things that stop you right where your standing. I have a few fears myself: heights! Oh how I am terrified of anything 4 feet of the ground. Public speaking, my palms get all moist and I stutter like a fool. I feel abandonment, but who doesn't? I don't like thinking that the one person I confide in the most will be gone in the blink of an eye. Those are some of my fears.
Now on the obstacles, obstacles are the things that get in our way when we are trying to climb the ladder of achievement. some obstacles for me are finances, I know it seems like that may be everyone's obstacle but it is so true! without money in this world in some case and sadly most you are a sitting duck! you can't start your own multimillionaire company of fly to Fiji on good looks! If you could I'd be there...not to toot my own horn. Another obstacle is my fear of public speaking I hope that soon I can learn to overcome it. It is not that bad, I have seen worse cases but it is annoying since I am very bright, inquisitive and have lots to say. and lastly, my fear of heights I love culture and the world so much I just want to travel the world one day(literally) but first I have to embrace planes=heights.....one day.
All these fears can be controlled of course, yes it is very difficult but they can be overcame. I just have to work on my public speaking more, hopefully when I transfer to a our year university I can take a public speaking course... Lord knows I need it. As for the heights thing. Yeah, baby steps I should probably try to start wit bridges and ladders. A strong education and dedication is the only way I am going to change my financial issues. So there you have it, everything can be resolved is just take time...like all good things do, they take time.
Fear
fear fear fear your not my friend
fear fear fear you are the end
fear fear fear will you ever cease?
fear fear fear no joy, no ease
fear will consume
fear will kill
fear finds you valley high or low hills
fear is a killer
fear is work, dilgentilly
fear tears us apart slowly and painfully
fear will never cease
fear I beg you, I moan and plead
because fear is unexpected
and fear will kill us all
but fear can be conquered
only by brave souls
fear fear fear you are the end
fear fear fear will you ever cease?
fear fear fear no joy, no ease
fear will consume
fear will kill
fear finds you valley high or low hills
fear is a killer
fear is work, dilgentilly
fear tears us apart slowly and painfully
fear will never cease
fear I beg you, I moan and plead
because fear is unexpected
and fear will kill us all
but fear can be conquered
only by brave souls
Bianca,
ReplyDeleteGreat journal and blog. I like how you listed out your fears in one paragraph and your obstacles in another.
Then, you go on to explain strategies about your fears, but what about the obstacles? Sure, you may not have an easy answer to make more money (right away), but the obstacles are really the things that we can work on in the immediate, in order to reduce the greater fears - to some degree. You may always have a fear of heights, but you may not always have so many obstacles.
I'd like to see you reflect more on the obstacles - and what steps you can do to start removing them.
GR: 90